just like my friend, her husband was stuck with another women, when i told her she has to be strong, but she was so weak in this...she tried to finish her life, i slap her.. i felt so sorry now( even she is not angry with me) i never slap her b4... am i doing the rigth thing? that is her family business anyway........

malaysia antie: It's very difficult to be calm and strong when facing the situation as your friend is facing. Maybe she needs time to think about the relationship and to recover from different kinds of feelings.

In your view, you wanna encourage her so you did slap her. However, i think, just stand by her, listen to her is the greatest support you may give her.

Anyway, you are best friends, do cherish your friendship with her. It is very precious.